It’s muddy in the paddock after several days of summer rain, and the pasture where I usually play with my horses is soggy. I take my seven-year-old gelding Kai to a back road that leads to the beach. He’s wearing a new cavesson I made for him out of paracord. I suggest lateral movements on the shoulder of the road to warm up. An ATV is flying towards us and Kai checks in with me to see if I’m alright — if I’m not scared, he isn’t either.
The beach is just over a mile from home. Kai is trying to grab at some Queen Anne’s Lace growing on the side of the road as he trots. The white flowers hang out of his mouth.
The pavement turns into gravel, and now we are on a narrow path down to the beach, past the abandoned house and the blackberry bramble. The tide is coming in, but there’s still half the beach left to play on. I’m happy about that, as I didn’t check the tide schedule before leaving. The tides on the Bay of Fundy are the highest in the world.
This is my arena. The scenery is spectacular and the sand is always freshly dragged. I suggest half-passes. Kai agrees and floats sideways. I listen to the delightful rhythmic crunch of his footfalls over the gray, foggy beach. When we’re done, he licks and chews, as he is still learning the movement. I lean over to give him a treat. His ears swivel towards me and he nickers, pleased with himself.
I’m sixteen years old. I train my horses with the support of my mentor, Farrah Green, with whom I take weekly video lessons. I’ve been teaching people for almost two years, and I drive all over Nova Scotia to see my students. When they are in tune with their equine partners, they can build a solid, safe foundation. I love helping people understand their horses and watch their relationships blossom. I equally enjoy teaching confidence-building fundamentals, as well as advanced maneuvers like haunches-in.
I’ve been extremely fortunate to have been supported and encouraged by gifted and passionate horsemen who have guided me towards Relationship-Based Horsemanship. I draw energy and inspiration from being a part of a large network of like-minded horse trainers and instructors.
Many people don’t have this level of support. Studying Relationship-Based Horsemanship isn’t always easy; I was bullied and ridiculed for sticking by my convictions. But I’ll come out and tell you: someone has your back. I’m excited that horsemen all over the world, no matter their discipline or training style, can now feel the support of an organization whose standards of horse training put the horse first.